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Wednesday, October 15, 2008

Communication

So when things have gone wrong
Make a new beginning again by commiting urselves together all again The truth is, both of you will have to work on this. It will not automatically be easy but it is possible. Start by forgiving each other, forgetting the past,. Focus only on the special things and learn to put important things on a side relearn to put the unimportant things aside. It will take some time so be patient.
1. Communication –
Communication is something we all know is necessary to keep any relationship strong and loving, and although we are aware of the importance of communication . we always be a back step when communicating with a partner
Communicate so that you will be able to understand yourself and your partner much better. There is nothing that keeps a relationship healthy better than understanding each other .

Its true that man and women have differences , but not that much as if we are from different planets if we think that we would end up being fools if we didn’t accept and recognize them .but actually we have more in common than w have different .If we embrace the things which a are common and accept what is different we get on a better than treating each other equal rather than as I we are separate .

So talk and listen to one another. figure out what your common interests are. You can share your feelings with the other person and trust that they will be there to listen and support you

By listening carefully and sharing your thoughts and feelings with another person, you show them that they are an important part of your life.
You need to work out together to understand the opposite to make your relation successful
Normal what happens when any problem arises .
People always tend to turn to their partner first when things are not running so smoothly in their relationship. We automatically start pointing out each other is doing or not doing, as well as how the opposite is not listening to you . This may all be true depending on the particular situation, but it is important that each take the responsibility in reviewing their own actions and communication first, before they point anything out at their .
Fact is that , it is very easy to see other people's mistakes, but when it comes to looking at self , it is much harder to accept criticism, even from yourself- because no one wants to be wrong. This is where you need to get real about things and working them out

So start talking with each other or discuss the events that are causing the challenges in your life. Talk about what can be done to improve the situation as well as the pros and cons to the solutions .
And about helping each other see things from each other's perspective, so that you can be on the edge and avoid any misunderstanding that will cause unneeded arguments.

Donts in a communication
Never try to talk to win the conversation.
Never try to perceive in making ur partner to see things in your way rather than sharing
Never talk about negative things of ur partner

Dos
Try to communicate as much as u can
Undesrtand each other well and try to see each other s positive side .
always be a good listener

Find common interests:If you don’t share each other’s interests or have nothing to talk about, you will be bored to death being together. Try to take a step forward to improvement of your relationships by changing the situation to uniting your interests. For example, one weekend you may do what your partner is interested in, and the next weekend you will do what is interesting for you. Don’t forget to talk. It is a good way to expand the interest area through the interests,

2 comments:

Narasimha Rao said...

very well written.. Good... Keep it up..

Regards
Narasimha

Anonymous said...

Very nice post Kavitha :) Rightly said