what role does perfection pay in the daily life?

A basic ideology is set up in human beings is that to be success or achieve the best of life can be only by being perfect .

There are  some ground rule are set before even we exist and after our existence we just go by the ground rules   i.e. I've always be the best, do the best job,  be obedient, Don't forget anything, always have the right answer, not to make mistakes, not  to be rude, be the favorite , make it on time...you get the picture.
 So the moral of this is we feel it is our duty to be perfect . so from the day we realize we keep reminding that everything  is to be done should be just perfect and however  painful it is we just  brain wash ourselves  that perfection is the only path to success and you must never fail else you are treated as a bad person.

We  constantly tend up taking  much pressure to perform a certain way to be in the rat race. But we  forget the fact that We are all individuals having a different journey of life and along those paths , at all times we are 100% perfectly imperfect.

 At every given moment we are absolutely perfect for what is required for our life. I’m not perfect for your expectations  and you’re not perfect for my expectations , but I’m perfect for my path and you’re perfect for your path. but we’re both exactly perfect the way we are. but we just stress ourselves not understanding the truth of perfection.

 Then one day, we discover  that the only person who expected  to be perfect was myself.  As everyone else just expected me to be perfect and  to follow the ground rules but they nevertheless followed them if at all they did it was by the changes done according to their needs.

That concept was literally mind-blowing but in reality perfection is nothing but an illusion. It's taken me years to full grasp that I'm not expected to prove myself  perfect or do things according to them and pressurize myself.

 

And that day I realized How others think and feel about our actions does not define us. 

we just have to do what is best for us and precisely be clear in how we want to define our life has to be.

We Don't Have to be Perfect  And Nobody is perfect  and  don’t have to be.  If I’ve realized anything in the past few years I can figure it out as I go, and as long as I do the best I can, it’s okay if I still screw up. And it  always doesn't  work  like what you’d imagined in your head. When we pursue something that makes us truly, deeply, genuinely happy –we want of nothing more. We find ourselves happy and content for which we need not be perfect .

Perfection

Perfection

Yes u read the right word  it is perfection.

As we are growing I think one common sentence we would heard from our friends , families is that I want everything to be perfect or I just want the perfect things . And I am sure we would have definitely come across these sentence more than once  and  rather I would say we ourselves would have said that.

This word is the most used or expected in chores of life. when we say perfection what do we mean by perfection and what do we expect from it.

how would you answer this question ?

My response would be we aim or want to achieve everything which is perfect .but in the concept of achieving perfection we go thru many things  and at the end we be in a misconception that we have attained perfection .

but in reality I would say  no such thing as perfection  exsits in this humanitarian  world where you  demand that  and you attain it,

so it's just a probability of achieving things for perfection or we end up attaining things for happiness .

How do we attain perfection  ? what are the things we go thru to attain perfection.?

what role does perfection pay in the daily life?Do we really have to be perfect ?